Thursday, April 30, 2015

Angels In My Travels

Maybe age is catching up with me in terms of catching buses while moving from one place to another because I now get muscle pains like I never did before.  While I keep a wary eye on dispatchers (barkers, some say) who assure you the bus is arriving soon (karong taud-taud); or porters who always say they don’t have change so you end up giving a whole bill, it’s never long when an angel comes along.

The aircon Rural Bus from Tacurong was just pulling off the ramp in Kabacan when I got out of the van from Cotabato City this particular Tuesday morning.  The conductor told me there were no more seats available but I am never a complainer for standing in a crowded bus.  Like many Filipino commuters, I am just grateful enough there’s a way to get from one point to the next.

As I eyed each row to be occupied, I reached the last row of seats at the back (The Balcony).  I just did not get an empty seat, the person beside it was Ray John! He video documented our climb to Kansad Gadung, a Teduray Sacred Place in 2013.  RJ’s current assignment was with the Dulangan Manobo of Kulaman, Sultan Kudarat.  Needless to say there was a lot of catching up more than a year hence while enjoying the moving landscape. 

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Wednesday morning the Rural Bus to Tacurong was De Luxe, meaning non-aircon.  No problem.  The same thing, I am just one of the many Filipino commuters that are grateful for any means that can get us from Point A to Point B in one piece, non-aircon notwithstanding.  Others pushed me to go to the balcony; which was also full.  I can stand in the middle, no problem, so they squeezed ahead.  Securing my backpack in the overhead loft, I get settled – standing up.  

When the bus was already plying the highway, a young man stood up from his seat and said, “Aglayan lang ko, Maam”.  Meaning, I can have his seat because Aglayan was just a few minutes away; and Kabacan was 5-6 hours ahead for me.  “God bless you,” I tell him and he smiles.

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The Weena Bus in Kabacan was aircon, alright; but a handful of passengers standing in the front aisle would not budge even if there was plenty of space in the middle.  I squeezed myself; and got settled – yes, standing up.  Two young ladies called my attention and told me the three of us can sit in two seats designed for two.  Hmm – half of my butt did; but not long enough, a young man some three rows behind said he’s going down and I can take his seat.  I said my thanks to the young man, the two young ladies, they smiled and I moved.  I felt sorry for those who did not budge.

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The tricycle driver from the Magallanes Terminal did not have change for my ten-peso coin.  No problem, keep it.  His face showed a sign of relief. 

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Four rather-full multicabs in Mabini did not want to go to where I asked them.  I tried to wait for one more and if there’s none I can probably walk back the next block where passengers are just coming in.  Then a motorcycle pulled up in front of me and offered me a ride.  My brain processed for some milliseconds and I realized it’s a neighbour whom I haven’t seen in ages.  He happened just to pick up some vegetables for supper on the way home.

We had a happy exchange, saying he kept tab on Facebook though he does not interact much.  When I reached the corner to the house, I alighted and tapped him on the shoulder in gratitude and told him, “You’re an angel.”  He smiled.

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Long hours of travel on public transportation have always been a given in this country, especially in the countryside.  While nothing much has changed over the years except for the models of the buses and the cemented roads, people’s lives remain the same: passengers in terminals scamper each time a bus arrives to see where it’s headed to; barkers shout the destination of incoming buses instead of putting up arrival and departure schedules; conductors negotiating with some passengers that if inspectors come in they say they already have tickets; and so on and so forth. 

Why government at all levels have not achieved systematizing public transportation is beyond me still.  Meantime, I took note of the passengers who are headed the same destination as mine – so that if they scamper and return to their seats, it’s not our bus yet.   No need to be stressed out.  So much human activity is happening there’s no time to get bored.

Indeed, if government cannot establish systems, people cope.

Cotabato City
30 April 2015

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Aveen Acuña-Gulo posts herself on Facebook as a Monumental Operations Manager (MOM).  She is a Bukidnon-born Cebuano mother of three (3) Maguindanao-Ilonggo-Cotabateño children; who will always be a child at heart even if she is a hundred years old.

She wrote a column “The Voice” for the Mindanao Cross from 1991-2006. 

She likes to challenge stereotypes.  “Don’t worry about my opinions,” she says.  “It won’t make a dent to the conventional.”


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